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I R I S : iyo po
ANONYMOUS: hehehehe
I R I S : ano n?
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ANONYMOUS: sowee
ANONYMOUS: namemental block kasi ako pag ikaw ka chat ko
ANONYMOUS: i just dnt know y!
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I R I S : ows...
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ANONYMOUS: mayo po
I R I S : ok
ANONYMOUS: hehehehe
ANONYMOUS: any topic?
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ANONYMOUS: wla kc me maisip
ANONYMOUS: nyeeek
ANONYMOUS: lolz

BUZZ!!!

ANONYMOUS: ooops
ANONYMOUS: sowwe po
I R I S : ok lng
I R I S : cge bc ata u
ANONYMOUS: nope hindi naman po
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ANONYMOUS: wat do you mean?
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ANONYMOUS: ay!
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ANONYMOUS:
ANONYMOUS: ganun!
ANONYMOUS: tano mayo kang ibang ka chat?
ANONYMOUS: nadalan mo na ang bcuz of u?

I R I S : maung siram mga kchat ko
I R I S : dai pa
ANONYMOUS: saro na kao duman diba?
I R I S : dai mn
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ANONYMOUS:
I R I S : iyo
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ANONYMOUS: kala ko gusto mo kaidto magdalan?
I R I S : inda..dai mn kya mdlan frnds ko
ANONYMOUS: teka
ANONYMOUS: yung ibang frnds ko madaralan daa
ANONYMOUS: gusto mo magiba?
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ANONYMOUS: ?
I R I S : dai n ngani po
ANONYMOUS: oh okay!
ANONYMOUS: lolz
ANONYMOUS: relax lang po
ANONYMOUS: wala ka pong kaaway!
ANONYMOUS: hehehehe
ANONYMOUS:
I R I S : sory
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ANONYMOUS:
I R I S : ok
ANONYMOUS: lol
ANONYMOUS: so ano na?
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ANONYMOUS: talagang boring me kaulay noh?
ANONYMOUS: maski kaidtong nag eb kita!
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I R I S : mdal2 k ngani
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I R I S : mar.16
ANONYMOUS: wow
I R I S : tno?
ANONYMOUS: 16 ka? insan ko 17 then si papa 18
ANONYMOUS: hehehehehe
ANONYMOUS: 19 ano?
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ANONYMOUS: 1988 ka?
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ANONYMOUS: so ma 17 ka pa lang?
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ANONYMOUS: ako kaya 87
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ANONYMOUS: ako daw kaya mas gurang!
ANONYMOUS: lolz!
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ANONYMOUS: garo man lang ako 1989 pinangaki!!!
ANONYMOUS: hubin pa ika nga!
I R I S : ang sabi!
ANONYMOUS: totoo daw kaya
ANONYMOUS: and sabi pa ni mama
I R I S :
ANONYMOUS: ako daa ang pinakcuapo sa gabos!
I R I S : c mama mo mn lng gro ngsabi...
I R I S : joke!
ANONYMOUS: k lang kahit si mama lang
ANONYMOUS: at least may nagsabi sakuya!
ANONYMOUS: hehehehe
I R I S : suba lng!
ANONYMOUS: aram ko man po!
ANONYMOUS: pero honestly
ANONYMOUS: di ba hindi halata sa mukha ko na 17 na ako?
ANONYMOUS: joke!
I R I S : iyo po
ANONYMOUS: yan ha ika na nagsabi kayan!
ANONYMOUS: wala nang bawian!
I R I S : iyo na...
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ANONYMOUS:
ANONYMOUS: sabi ko na nga ba!
ANONYMOUS: hehehehehe
I R I S : cge npo
ANONYMOUS: so kumusta na yung nanliligaw sa iyo?
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ANONYMOUS: okie dokie@!
ANONYMOUS: saka taka na lugod liligawan
ANONYMOUS: pag 18 ka na lang!
I R I S : as if!
ANONYMOUS: ang bata pa kasi para magka bf ka eh!
ANONYMOUS: pwamissss!
I R I S : dai mo ko i-under estimate
ANONYMOUS: tano man po?
ANONYMOUS: galit ka?
I R I S : dai
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I R I S : ok lgn
I R I S : lng
ANONYMOUS: peace tayo!
ANONYMOUS: pero serious ako dun sa sinabi ko po kanina
I R I S : arin?e2ng aki pko pra mgka-bf?
ANONYMOUS: nope
ANONYMOUS:
ANONYMOUS: saka taka na lugod liligawan
ANONYMOUS: pag 18 ka na lang!
I R I S : cge...kng available pko kang tym n yan
ANONYMOUS: alam mo yung song nina mark and sarah!?
ANONYMOUS: parang ganun!
I R I S : alin?
I R I S : anong song?
ANONYMOUS: yung song nina mark bautista and sarah na akoy maghihintay?
I R I S : ok
ANONYMOUS: get mmo?
ANONYMOUS: basta, if ever na dumating na yung panahon na iyon...
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I R I S : kng mkita mo pko
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I R I S : bhla ka
ANONYMOUS: kung makikita pa kita!
I R I S : ano mn?suba lng e2
ANONYMOUS: well nagyon baka joke lang
ANONYMOUS: but who knows diba?
I R I S : tno?
I R I S : ewan...bsta habo ko mgtaram ning tpos...ta habo kong mgpaasa nd habo kong umasa
ANONYMOUS: we cant tell wat mayt happen tomoro, next week, next month, or next year!!!
ANONYMOUS: okie
I R I S : tma ka!
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I R I S : sorry...
ANONYMOUS: k lang po!
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I R I S : dai npo mauulit
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ANONYMOUS: okie
ANONYMOUS: basta ha
ANONYMOUS: frnds na tayo!
I R I S : :)
I R I S : syempre!
I R I S : see u nlng s campus...kng mhiling tka
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Dec 7, '04 9:17 PM
for everyone

STAGES OF GRIEF

Grief is a somewhat complicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time or other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce or some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.There are five stages of grief. If we get stuck in one stage or the other, the process of grieving is not complete, and cannot be complete. Thus there will be no healing. A person MUST go through the five stages to be well again, to heal. Not everyone goes through the stages at the same time. It is different for each person. You cannot force a person through the stages, they have to go at their own pace, and you may go one step forward then take two steps backward, but this is all part of the process, and individual to each person. But, as stressed, ALL five stages must be completed for healing to occur.

1. Denial - "this can't be happening to me", looking for the former loverin familiar places, or if it is death, setting the table for the person or acting as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the loss.

2. Anger - "why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.

3. Bargaining - bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, or attempting to make deals with God to stop or change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.

4. Depression - overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.

5. Acceptance - there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make or break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave you on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person. Get help. You will survive. You will heal, even if you cannot believe that now, just know that it is true. To feel pain after loss is normal. It proves that we are alive, human. But we can't stop living. We have to become stronger, while not shutting off our feelings for the hope of one day being healed and finding love and/or happiness again. Helping others through something we have experienced is a wonderful way to facilitate our healing and bring good out of something tragic.

Scribbled on my note last Dec 1, '04 8:37 PM

A SIMPLE MESSAGE FROM CUTE

I was browsing the net nang maka recieve ako ng isang message. Nang buksan ko, sus si IRIS CUTE palan... so agad kong binuksan ang message niya... and talagang napangiti ako sa laman...

hirAp
idaan
s wlng
kiBo
hirAp
idaan
s wlng
sLita
hirAp
idaan
s
pg-iyAk
kng mhl
mO! xa,
bkt d mo!
sbhn
s knya??
mLay mO!
mhL k pla nya . .

yan ang message niya... I texted her back saying

Pano kng sabhn kng mahal kta! Ano ang sasabhn mo?

She never texted back!

Scribbled on my note last Dec 5, '04 12:15 AM

Pagsuko

Maari ba muna natin tong pagusapan
Sa dami-rami na ng ating pinag daanan
Ngayon mo pa ba maiisipang isuko
Ang lahat ng ating pinag samahan
Masikip sa damdamin hinigop ng hangin
Ang lakas, pinag hihinaan ng wagas
Pwede bang pag isipan wag ka munang lumiban
Baka sakali na ito ay masalba pa

Lumalamig ang gabi
Hindi na tulad ng dati

May pagasa pa ba kung susuko ka na
Larawan mo ba ay lulukutin ko na
Sa hirap at ginhawa tayo ay nagsama
Damdamin mo tila ay napagod na
Ikaw at ako ay alaala na lang
Kung susuko ka na

Bawat pangarap na ating pinagusapan
Pupunta na lang ba ito sa wala
Hayaan mong ituwid ang pagkakamali
Sa mga oras na to alam kong ika'y lito

IMAGES OF FAITH: 2012 Penafrancia Festival Photo Exhibit

The Penafrancia Camera Club, together with the Penafrancia Young Professionals, recently conducted a photo exhibit with the title: Images of Faith. This is in connection of the recently concluded Penafrancia Festival and the Year of Faith.

Here are some chosen photo's features during the Photo Exhibit:

Photo courtesy of Sir Jojo Prieto:

Sponsored by:
EPSON
Hypertech Computers
Penafrancia Young Professionals
Penafrancia Camera Club
ROtary Club of Naga

Proud Peer

As part of the Annual Inter-Organization, Fraternity and Sosority (Inter OFS) of my school, my organization joins various events in order to gain points and be in the Top 10 performing Organization.

Last September 28-29 and October 4-5, 2012 was the annual Sounds and Sights and Gawad Kilyawan contests, respectively. 

Here are the results:

Sounds and Sight Competition: Based from the title of the Activity, its purely about Music and Dance. This years theme focuses on Original Pilipino Music. The Organization joined 9 categories, and was eliminated in two categories (Vocal Duet and Acoustics).

Vocal Solo: 2nd Place

Song Interpretation: 2nd Place
- Kuya Caloi
- Ate Jo Ann
- Ate Gayle
- Kuya Arjh
- Kuya Budoy

Solo Impersonation: 3rd Place
- Ate Chai

Group Impersonation: 2nd Place
- Kuya Marz
- Ate Melo
- others

Modern Dance: 1st place (see performance video here)
- Kuya Rhej
- Kuya Ken
- Kuya Kebs
- Kuya Vince
- Ate Carmela

IYoutube: 1st Place (see video here)
- Ate Melo
- Kuya Nikko
- Kuya Budoy
- Kuya Vince
- Kuya Ken
- Ate Yhel
- Kuya Dicht
- Kuya Ahrj
- Ate Cess
- Ate Jo Ann

Other Events:
Vocal Duet : Eliminated during the Elimination Round
Acoustic / Instrumental : Eliminated during the Elimination Round
Talentadong Presidente : Nikko Verdadero

Gawad Kilyawan: Is all about art and this years theme revolves about Sec. Jesse M. Robredo.

1st Place: Abstract Painting ( Mary Allysa Jenica Sariba )

1st Place: Slogan Making Contest ( Anne Geleen Gayle Barias )

1st Place: Body Painting ( Mario Gacer )

Front View

Barong Inspired Painting

Back View

Yellow Ribbon with a sketch of JMR, the words USWAG NAGA Let's Do It and the Heart of Bicol Logo

1st Place: Paper Dress Making (Paki tag digdi. :])

Lakan ng Sining: Kenken Neknek

With his inspiration ;)

1st Runner-up, Mutya ng Sining: Melograce Senosin

2nd Place: Digital Art Category A

Other events:
Clay Cloning : Mark Payte
Junk Art : Carlo Adlay
Digital Art Category A and B : 
T-Shirt Painting : Kebs Convocar

Other Pics:

Entry for Clay Cloning

Artist: Mark Payte

 With Jo Ann Breis (former President of the Organization), Christian Beluang and Anne Geleene Gayle Barias (Winner for Slogan Making Contest)

Kebs Convocar for the T-Shirt Painting

 

Proud Peer Facilitators Organization!

Top 10 People of My Life for July to September

As usual, its time for me to name the Top Ten People of My Life, this time, for the period of July to September 2012.

Not in any particular order.

Jonel C. San Diego

I owe him a lot for helping me realizing my life-long dream of owning a replica of our ancestral image of Nstra. Sra. de la Aurora. Not a single day passes without him texting or calling me just to have a little chit-chat with anything about Pagsasanto. Now, I'll be seeing my very own Nanay Aurora mid of October. Yey!

Joseph Ceasar Sahurda

Also a Santo Enthusiast, and I consider as a brother already. We've been invovled in a lot of controversies, together with Manoy Jonel, but we made it through. An easy-go-lucky guy, yep, he's way far ahead of me from being an easy-go-lucky guy.

Louie Occiano

I included Father Lo, being the moderator, of the Penafrancia Young Professionals (PYP), where I proudly belong now. This organization brings me more closer to the Mother of Jesus. Oh Yeah!

Peer Facilitators Organization

For the past months, I decided to distance myself from the organization. But I think its the blood of being a Peer Facilitator that brings me back to them. Hahaha. Been so proud with this kids! Successful Phase 1, Hakot-Award during the 1st part of the INTER-OFS Part 2 and value's friendship like no other.

Oliver O. Jerez

We've been in a hell during our first months of being friends. We've been involved to issues that was aggravated by nosy people and has nothing to do but make others hate and fight each other. But all's well that end's well. At least we were able to settle the misunderstandings and became a good friend now.

Penafrancia

Young Professionals

The newest addition to my ever so growing family or organizations. For the past few months, I've been active with this organization and just like for the PFO, I'm giving my best for this one. Having so much fun!

Jason Chua

I decided to include this hunk for only a single reason, he gave me a brand new book, The Rise of Nine! Oh yeah!

Angelisa Hernandez Ramos

Our former, sorry for using the term, house maid. She donated a certain amount for me to be able to realize my life-long dream. Thanks so much Ate!

For now, I have my top 8. still thinking for the remaining 2!