Friday, May 4, 2012

HEART

The HEART…

How can I forget you? The usual question of a heart that was once been a victim of sadness, pain and disregard. Exactly why is it that its so hard to forget the person we once loved, or maybe we still love?

Our heart doesn't easily forget and it doesn't easily remove a certain feelings once it falls, that even if it knew that he's not being loved anymore, still he continue to hope that one day, something will return and that love will once again knock in his heart even if that person would mean the same person who gave a scar in his heart.

We often say that our heart is: "Baliw!" , "Hibang!" , "Bulag!" , "Manhid!" , what else . . . hmmm. . . "TANGA!" and often times, even though we want to break free from the past, we still continue to fight for our love!

And during those time, a new love comes. But have we noticed it? It is more often than not, we chose not to fall in-love again because we still want our previous beloved! Even if it doesn't bring us joy, but rather more pain! And maybe because its there the heart can find longing for a once loved for another heart.

With this, who are we going to chose? The one who used to stay in our heart or to the one who promises a new love? Its frightening when our heart is in this situation when the previous loved wins. Why is it that the heart still chooses to get hurt rather than hoping for another promises? Maybe because the heart were fed up of these kind of promises and that it doesn't easily forget? And how many more pain does it need just to say the words: "Tama na. . ." , "Sobra na. . .", "Ayaw ko na. . ." ? Its still confusing cause other still doesn't want to fall in-love because they still love their previous relationship who, mind you, often are already in-love with another?!

Oftentimes also, the heart is in a different situation. Our heart is already in-love but still managed to find a new heart to love! The typical Filipino Song that goes: "Sana dalawa ang puso ko..." and in this situation, how can a heart choose between the two? The new found love or the current love? Maybe our heart undergo this kind of dilemma because we often did not find the qualities of a perfect love in just one person. That's why, we mistook the feelings as LOVE because in the end, there's this more greater love. "If only you have just waited a little more, my dear heart." Tell me, which among the two should the heart chose? A heart that can love or a heart that can give you hope?

There are also this heart that are called "cheaters" because of the so many hearts he loved, not a single one lasted long! Choosy! With this kind, a lot of heart got broken. But does the heart really want to broke another heart? Or he just didn't find the right heart he wanted to give his whole being?

Whats hard about this is that our heart isn't the one who's responsible of giving the qualification of what, who and when! Its just a matter of "Take it of Leave it". Anyway, only the heart knows the real answer to that! Because our heart never fails because what our heart only know how to love. Its just that the situation doesn't fit in with our decision, thus, resulting to heartaches.

Remember, the rule about love is just to love without asking anything in return. That's what the heart know and nothing more!

HOW ABOUT YOU? ARE YOU READY TO LOVE AND BE HURT?

ARE YOU READY TO GET HURT JUST TO LOVE?


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