TRAFFIC LIGHT

Love is like a traffic light, there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to STOP, to LET GO and to TAKE ACTION.

STOP
Loving someone so much doesn’t always mean they’re the right one for us.

Hindi laging may happy ending kapag nagmamahal ka because true love never ends. May pagkakataong mararamdaman mo ang sakit na dulot ng pagmamahal mo.

Masakit isiping may mga taong hindi kayang magpahalaga sa mga taong nagmamahal sa kanila. Its better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never see’s your worth. Habang patuloy mong minamahal ang taong iyon, mas lalo kang nasasaktan dahil natatakot kang tanggapin ang maaari pang mangyari. Na ang taong buong pusong minahal mo ay bulag sa pagmamahal mo. Hindi porket mahal mo ang taong iyon ay siya na talaga ang para sa iyo.

Natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinakamamahal mo, pero siya ba takot ding mawala ka?

LETTING GO
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be. May mga bagay sa mundong hindi nakatakda para sa atin. Maaring ang mga bagay na ninanais natin na maging atin sana, ay iyon pang hindi kalian man magiging atin.Kailangan mong matutong magparaya. Let go upang maka move on and maka get over tayo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Loving someone is setting them free. Letting them go.

Masakit? Oo, para sa katulad mong nagmamahal.

Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting. To let go is not to deny, but to accept.

The hardest thing to do is letting go. Not because you want to, but because you have to.

May mga taong darating sa buhay natin na siyang muling magbabangon sa atin sa kabila ng pait ng nakalipas. Huwag nating isara ang ating puso dahil sa tayo’y nagparaya … nagmahal… o nasaktan…

Dahil may taong handang pumasok muli.

TAKE ACTION
While someone breaks your heart, another someone is waiting and willing to fix it.

Proceed with caution. Careful forethought to avoid danger and harm.

Natatakot tayong masaktan. Natatakot tayong harapin ang puwedeng mangyari. Natatkot tayong magmahal muli. Kaya nga nauso ang salitang “courage” dahil yan ang kailangan natin to take action. Kung ang traffic light ay may yellow light para sa CAUTION SIGN, sa love, ganun din, kung alam nating masasaktan lang tayo at di maaaring pumapel. Huwag na nating pahirapan pa ng husto ang sarili natin. Tulad ng sa elevator: kung alam na nating siksikan, huwag na tayong sumiksik pa. May hagdan naman, ayaw lang nating pansinin.

STOP. LET GO. TAKE ACTION.

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Life really is a mystery. Ni hindi natin alam kung kailan tayo mamamatay. Kung ano ang mga mangyayari sa atin ilang segundo, menuto, oras o araw mula ngayon. Lahat, nagaabang tayo sa mga maaaring mangyari.

But it would be more often than not, na hindi natin ito naiisip. Bihira lang. O kung hindi man, mangilan-ngilan lang sa atin ang nakakaisip nito.

People usually try to hide their true feelings toward other persons. I know its such a cliche to say this, but we really try to keep it to ourselves and never say or show to the other how much we care, love or even thankful to one person?

Why wait for the right timing of doing or saying those when you already have sufficient time to do so? Why do we have to wait for time to run out and we can no longer say or do it.

I'm just saying this because I was busy reading some wall post of my friend's friends who just passed away. They keep on saying sweet words and loving words to him, but how many of them do say those words to him when he's still alive? Others, obviously, say those words because he's already gone.

But what would be the use of such words if the one you're dedicating it to was already gone?

Two Good-bye's in just One Week

This week had been one of the unforgettable days for me.

First one was due loss of Sheena and Jett's Lolo, who died due to old age.

Secondly, and the most shocking of all, the early demise of Francis Mazedon C. Mendoza, or Jojo to his friends, youngest brother of Lheila, died due to Cardio-Respiratory Attack (not sure about this one, basta, binangungot siya!)

Jojo died at the young age of 20 years old. And thats so shocking! Though we may not be that close, but still, I can feel the loss cause we've been a good online buddy and his suster is a very dear friend.

My memories of Jojo was with one of his post which says:

"CUTE ANG HULING MAG COMMENT DITO"

So obviously, you'll do your very best to be the last one to comment on the post.

Then of course, the FB Chat momments we had, most of it were really none-sense and plainly playful. But it was something, and I must say, started the bond between the two of us.

Also, I often see him at their house everythime we spend of free time there. He's always infront of his laptop, either playing some online games, of just chatting in YM. But even though we didn't talk, we acknowledge the fact that we are close. Smiles once in a while and joke once in a while.

Now, I'll be missing those moments. Not just me, or JSL but surely of his siblings, Lheila, Shiela, Dhon and Maia most specially to his Parents.

Jo, God Speed and May you find eternal peace.